Still Waiting for My Lucky Break
Have you ever met a person who just seems so darn lucky? It’s like they attract good fortune like a magnet. While you're happy that things go so well for them, you secretly wonder, "Why does everything always come so easily for them? Why can't it be that way for me?" While it's easy to believe that luck is some magic force that randomly targets a select few, the truth is far different.
What if I were to tell you there's no such thing as luck? Okay, okay, hear me out. Your future success isn't just left to chance; you have the power to control your destiny and manifest the things you desire. I truly believe the quote, "The harder you work, the luckier you get." How can I make this happen, you ask? Keep reading to find out!
What Do You Mean There's No Such Thing as Luck?
It may sound crazy, but from what I've experienced, luck isn't real. The concept itself implies that you have no control over your life and are just a victim of circumstance. The truth is much more encouraging and empowering; according to science, you have the power to create your own luck! You read that right; a study from the University of Hertfordshire's Professor Richard Wiseman found that instead of being a random happening, luck is the result of mindset, behaviors, and attitudes.
That's good news for anyone who thinks they're chronically unlucky; it turns out you simply haven't learned how to use your mindset and perception to shape your future. Furthermore, if "luck" comes from your beliefs, actions, and thoughts, then you can change your circumstances by changing those things. That mind shift can happen anytime you want. However, the actual change will come in due time with consistency and patience. So, the question is, are you willing to put the effort into creating good luck?
While Professor Wiseman’s research may seem groundbreaking, his findings align with what I've always believed: each person can create their own luck. But knowing something and knowing how to accomplish it are two different things. Let's explore some tips you can use to start getting “lucky.”
Here is a Starting Point on Creating Your Own Luck
1. Be Open
You can't receive what you're not open to, so keeping an open mind and heart will put you in a position for opportunities and success.
2. Keep a Growth Mindset
Truly successful people have a growth mindset, not a fixed one. Changing your views from "victim" to "victor" when you encounter adversity will drive you to keep growing.
3. Stay Optimistic
Optimism lets you see the good in all circumstances and look at the silver lining. Everyone encounters hardship, but being determined to use it for good makes all the difference.
4. Listen to Yourself
Your intuition is your greatest tool. It'll help you avoid making bad decisions and live life more confidently.
5. Get Support
Humans aren't meant to do life alone, so finding someone who will encourage and guide you is crucial. Whether it's a close friend, mentor, or family member, having someone to turn to is an invaluable resource for a successful life.
6. Position Yourself for Success
Position yourself for success every, single, day. Develop healthy habits, utilize meditation, stick to a routine, stay consistent, and follow-through. When you prioritize yourself, you can focus on building your future.
7. Utilize What You Already Have
Finally, you were born with unique skills and talent. Tap into those and see where they can lead you.
You don't have to wish you were lucky; you can create your own luck and start living the life you deserve. It may take time, but with practice, patience, and determination, soon, others will look at you and think, "Man, I wish I was as lucky as they are!"
So don't give up, go and create your luck. It's Possible!